Dedicated to Mr.NK

This is an unexpected post . I never knew Naveen had so many questions to ask but as he is also a part of this session I am posting my answers here . I would honestly reply for him too . I stand by my word . But let me tell you I am surprised looking at his questions and happy too 

1.Why did you accept my love ? 

Firstly I like you ,second I knew that you would be for me at any point of situation as the first thing you told me was that you will stand for my brother and sister in their difficulties . If you can do that I knew that you will never leave me .

And I like dark men so that's also a reason . Altogether I like you ♡ you are my bestest .

2.Why u are sometimes too bothering?

I seriously dont know but I agree that sometimes I am too bothering ;)

3.Why u dnt like people who drink or smoke?

Behind every addiction there is a generation that suffers hence . I dont want any of my generations to suffer due to an addict . 

4.What is the word "parenting" for u?

When I die my daughter/ Son should have the bestest memory of their mother /father . It should never be of a parent who went behind money .It should be of a parent who spent happy times with them . They should end up with happy memories and peaceful life . 

5.Why u love ur brother 1st b4 me?

Sorry:( 

6.How would you take things in life if i pass away first?

I cried reading this question but on a serious note I will still lead my life and try to bring as much as peace within the family because that's what you like the most but I promise or I am sure that I will not bring in another man into my life . You are my forever ♡

7.Why u talk too much?

Only to you :) I stopped talking to many sometime back . 

8.With no cooking experience for 1st 25 years what made you get into cooking for me after marriage?

Because you love food and I love you ;) 

9.What is love?What is trust?

When trust is broken love is also broken and hurt enters in which is an unexplainable feeling.So trust is more important that love . 

10.Why you dnt believe anyone so quickly?

Because 99 percent of people in my life have hurt me .From the age of 15 I am seeing this in my life hence I dont believe or trust anyone quickly .They dont come to be without a reason . At some point they either cheat or hurt me .I dont want to get more of it hence started leaving people in life as per their wish .Let them do whatever they want . 

11.U wake in the mrng! Some one rings ur doorbell! U see ur dad saying hi! How u wud react

I will kneel down and cry as much as I can .

12.Why u dont like cleaning toilet alone?

Because cleaning toilet is a boring job and need company :)

13.Chennai or palakkad?

For the exposure Chennai and for peace and calmness palakkad 

14.Why u dont watch movies often even though u have netflix login?

Because I dont have patience to sit and watch a movie for 3 hours . Also I watch a movie only if I know it's worth my time hence . Some movies I do.

So in total he had 14 questions and there was no response as he slept off .I guess he has more questions to ask me let's see ..... to be continued 

But I am very happy that I am having a wonderful Q & A session this year . 

Q & A Part 2

I really thought of only part 1 . Never expected part 2 .As I got so many question putting a part 2 here .

1.Unni- Chaptacha ?( Did you eat?)

Yes I did . ♡

2.Meera - What inspired you for cooking/crafts ?

Inspiration for cooking is Naveen . I dont know cooking until I married Naveen as my life completely was in hostel from the age of 15 . He loves to eat good food hence I learned it only for him . 

Crafts I have no clue .I do from the age of 2 or 3 itself and I still have all the drawings that I did from first .My parents had saved it in a file and it's a memory now .How beautifully they had collected my work ♡

Who is your role model?

Nobody . I dont have or will have any role model in my life .

3.Sowmiya - How does your skin glow ? 

I dont put soap on my face ,I force myself to drink 8 bottles of water everyday ,I do fruit facials at home .I dont use powder or any other cosmetics on my face .

4.Swarnalatha 

How did naveen get such a talented and cute  girl like u.His family is very lucky to have  u  and how do u maintain  this passion for all art forms?

Honestly I am lucky to have Naveen in my life who has the greatest quality of a human which is patience .

How did he get me ? He has always loved people who keeps thinking and stays creative so that is the reason to fall in love with me. In every fall I have found a creative way out . He likes that quality of thinking life in every different angle possible and i create solutions for every problem.Atleast so far I have . 

Maintanance of passion in art forms ? 

I dont know . I love creating and finding different ways to lead a day .My perspective of everything has always been different from others and I dont know why.

5.Gayathri C.V -Why we didn’t meet wen u wer in Chennai?

I think it was raining that day when I planned . Sorry probably on my next vacation and when we are safe from corona .

Thank you for all the wonderful question.

PART 3 COMING SOON WHICH IS A SURPRISE TO ME ♡ 

Q&A 2020

So here is my Q & A for this year . I had 2 parts last time which was nearly 25 to 30 questions but this year I think there will be only one part as many dint respond to my message . 

So here we go . 

First of all thanks to everybody who took time to respond to my question . 

1.Asha - Shipping cost ? 

As a part of my small business I had made a banner for her son. I have to ship it to California. I am yet to check for the shipping charges and when it will reach if sent . So her query is on hold . I liked the question tho :)

2.Ragavan- When are you coming to Chennai ?

Definitely not for now .

3.Harish - Will you help me plan my UAE vacation ?

As of now sorry I cant help you due to Covid :) .Better stay safe wherever you are . 

4.Nandhini- How do you find time to do so many things dear 

I have my own schedule which I follow and I try my best to go with it .I have a diary in which I plan everything .

5.Vidhya -What is the best advice for a girl for a successful married life ?

Patience and not telling opinions /advice without someone asks you . When this is done most of the things end up as a success :) 

6.Gayathri -How you are managing time so productively .Can you give me some tips for time management 

I plan my day to day in a diary . I try my max to stick to it . Sometimes I do pending works when Tungli is sleeping .

7.Reshma -How you take a worse situation positively?

If it's related to a person I would think is he/she worth knowing what I feel ? Atleast if I explain will they know what I am going through . If the answer is no I just walk off and think what's the next move . I will give a damn. But before I take this decision I would have thought a million times for sure . 

If it's a life changing situation scenario that is not favouring still I think what's next and move on . I have seen enough of worst situations and people in my life hence not a big deal actually . 

It's kind of difficult but I can definitely find a strong reason to move forward and I will . 

8.Vishvesh- Wats ur opinion regarding extra martial affair? 

I dont know why this guy asked this question to me but my answer would be no comments.

9.Steffy -Are you happy ? 

Thank you Steffy yes I am happy in my own world .

Last but not the least 

10.Satish - Are you ok ? 

Firstly how are you? and are you ok ?are two different things for me.

I cried reading this question . Let me be very honest . No human asks me this question . Many at times in life I have thought we always ask people how they are but no one even bothers to know what's our status . That's how the world and people have changed . Then I got used to it. Every human would love hearing this question are you ok ? Naveen spoke to this guy and told him thanks for the question .Shilpa was very happy . That's how much this question meant to me . I full heartedly think people should learn to ask how are you or are you ok to atleast some people in life . After all life is uncertain we never know what happens next . 

Anyhow thanks to everybody who had beautiful questions for me and I wish you all good health and peace .

Much love to all and I guess you all are ok wherever you are now . 

Thank you .

A little dealing with myself

With so much of negative things happening around I thought of bringing so happy vibes around me .Its been a long time since I heard good things around me . So how am I going to make the change for the next 10 days . 

1. Planning to study botany . Bringing back the 12th grade life . I have loved botany than zoology hence i am planning to learn atleast about 5 to 10 plants in the upcoming days .

2.I am on the process of starting my own company hence gonna fill up the diary with my ideas and spend some time on it (on a serious note )

3.De clutter many items from our house including Tungli toys and having a check on her clothing too  .

4.Download a picture of nature everyday and write something about it  

5.Planning to make some traditional tamilnadu and karnataka dishes . Just doing some dwelling on karnataka traditional dishes .Seems interesting 

6.Have to make handmade cards with Tungli for upcoming birthdays or 2 to 3 people in our family . 

7.Try making some interesting cocktails. Atleast 2 or 3 

8. Cleaning and sorting  all the pooja items . Next have to get ready for Navarathri :)

9.Write some surprise sticky notes everyday to Naveen .

10.Do some thinking and having Plan C. I am always someone who has plan B but these days having Plan C is not wrong . 

Do you also have plans like these . What are your thoughts these days . 

Wish you all better and happy days ahead ♡ 

Whats happening around ?

Not sure whether you would feel the same but these days I see so many people talking about breastfeeding,pregnancy,infertility,childcare,lactation and so many things. 

I just joined an instagram account to see what it is all about . I saw everybody going live and people just keep talking all the time.Let me seriously tell you i just dont understand what's happening in the world . 

1.I am also a mother .I have my own hardships.

2.I see people live all the time so I think who does the work in their house 

3.They talk everything which is not related to the topic .

4.I dont know the purpose of the speech 

5.I dont know why everybody acts heavenly. I do agree everyone are special but I dont know what to say 

I am in a situation of no words to express what I feel about this or why this is all for . 

Additionally I am fed up with workout videos,skin care routine videos etc etc . 

I just dont know what to say . Do you also feel the same as I do . 

Note: This is not to say people are wrong . Seeing all these I dont understand what is the motive of doing it . Is it just time pass ,or they have enough time,or everybody have become heavenly.

Just my thought . Let me know what you think about all these which you see in facebook ,instagram and youtube .