Not finding much of time with so much to do at home . Meanwhile , I took a summer painting class at Chennai for a month. Thought of teaching what I know to the kids . I realized that teaching is not an easy job . I had to be very patient enough with the kids . They were all below 7 years of age . They have No idea about the colours or how to use the brush . This is all fine .
There are so many things that I observed in the parents.I normally love observing than talking .
Particularly I am mentioning few behaviours here which are not that great towards a kid .
1. Never slap you kid .Slapping them won't help in any way .
Instance - his mother lied to me and he told me it' a lie so she slapped him in front of me .
2.Never keep scolding your child at your home .
Instance - when painting he started crying .When asked he said his mum keeps beating him at home .
3.Trust you kid .I am.not saying kids wont lie but at first you need to listen to them and then secondly comes the lie or whatever .
4.Never make a scene in front of your kid like crying , telling to make a promise on mother etc .Typical Indian mothers at times .
5.Never talk bad about the father at any cost .You never know what he goes through at his work place and how he sends the money to you . Learn to run a family happily with the money he gives . He has a better sense than you .
6.Give some respect to the father in front of the kid .What you tell about his dad is what he learns and continues.
7.When you leave the kid in a class , please leave him and go . Do not talk or put your nose into other families personal affairs . Behave•
8.Never degrade an other kid . Every kid and every painting is great .
The kids are spoiled only because of the mothers attitude . At least the ones who came for my classes.
End result was .
We wish we had a mom like you who never scolds or slaps us at home . This might seem funny but actually not .
Please try to sit and talk with them .You have to sacrifice everything to bring up a good human being. Not easy !!
Few never know the value of a child . They would have got it easily . For people like me who got one after 5 years and left 8 years of working experience all these shows how pathetic few parents are .
Post in your views .
There are so many things that I observed in the parents.I normally love observing than talking .
Particularly I am mentioning few behaviours here which are not that great towards a kid .
1. Never slap you kid .Slapping them won't help in any way .
Instance - his mother lied to me and he told me it' a lie so she slapped him in front of me .
2.Never keep scolding your child at your home .
Instance - when painting he started crying .When asked he said his mum keeps beating him at home .
3.Trust you kid .I am.not saying kids wont lie but at first you need to listen to them and then secondly comes the lie or whatever .
4.Never make a scene in front of your kid like crying , telling to make a promise on mother etc .Typical Indian mothers at times .
5.Never talk bad about the father at any cost .You never know what he goes through at his work place and how he sends the money to you . Learn to run a family happily with the money he gives . He has a better sense than you .
6.Give some respect to the father in front of the kid .What you tell about his dad is what he learns and continues.
7.When you leave the kid in a class , please leave him and go . Do not talk or put your nose into other families personal affairs . Behave•
8.Never degrade an other kid . Every kid and every painting is great .
The kids are spoiled only because of the mothers attitude . At least the ones who came for my classes.
End result was .
We wish we had a mom like you who never scolds or slaps us at home . This might seem funny but actually not .
Please try to sit and talk with them .You have to sacrifice everything to bring up a good human being. Not easy !!
Few never know the value of a child . They would have got it easily . For people like me who got one after 5 years and left 8 years of working experience all these shows how pathetic few parents are .
Post in your views .
