I??

Instead of asking 

Why they left ? 

Now, I would ask 

What beauty will I create in the place they no longer occupy ...

And will I ? 

Rewrite your life..

Decide who you would have been .Decide who you want to become and work towards becoming that. You can let go and start something new, you can build a life completely different from what anyone who knew you expects from you. It's your right - it is your life and you're the one who has to live it. No one else can.

Breaking the ties may be hard, but if the situation's extreme it may be the best thing you can do. Live your life by what you believe and accept the happiness that comes your way in real !!

It's  vital to understand what trustworthy life is ...

Fact of life

The whole value process is like depositing money into a savings account. All the things you do for the other person is the principal. That's not to be touched.

You can only start "withdrawing" value from the relationship once you've contributed enough to generate some interest. Trust me, I learned this the hard way !

You ?

While stress causes some people to crumble, mentally strong people continue to thrive in the midst of added tension. In fact, they view adversity as an opportunity for self-growth.Whether they're dealing with financial setbacks, health problems, or workplace difficulties, mentally strong people don't let stress drag them down

They accept that stress is part of life.

While some people waste time and energy thinking things like, "I shouldn't have to deal with this," mentally strong people know that setbacks, problems, and hardships are inevitableWhen stressful situations arise, they devote their efforts into doing what they can to move forward. Even when they can't change the circumstances, they know they can always take steps to improve their lives.They keep problems in proper perspective.They take care of their physical health.Mentally strong people recognize the importance of keeping their bodies in smooth operating condition. They recognize they won't be able to combat stress if they're worn out and running on empty. They exercise, get plenty of sleep, and maintain a diet that keeps them healthy.They choose healthy coping skillsWhile some people turn to alcohol, junk food, or other unhealthy vices to help them escape stress, mentally strong people choose to cope with discomfort in a productive manner. They allow themselves to feel uncomfortable emotions, like anxiety, fear, and sadness, head-on. They use healthy activities, like going for a walk or participating in a hobby, to cope with emotional pain.They balance social activity with solitudeSometimes, in an attempt to avoid facing problems, people fill their schedules with social activities. Others deal with stress by withdrawing from their friends and family. Mentally strong people, however, strike a good balance. They maintain a healthy social life even when they're stressed, but they also reserve time alone to be their thoughtsStress can cause people to feel like a victim of bad circumstances. But mentally strong people acknowledge that everything they do, from the time they wake up until the time they go to sleep, is a choice. They're willing to say no to things they don't want to do and they accept responsibility for their behavior.Mentally strong people don't necessarily see the world through rose-colored glasses their outlook is a realistic outlook  but they do look for the silver lining in tough circumstances. They recognize that good things can stem from stressful circumstances. Rather than allowing hardship to turn them into bitter people or helpless victims, they choose to use stressful circumstances to become stronger and better.

Dec 9

This day is so special

The eyes met the soul 

And started a new life 

For all the good and hard times 

Staying together matters

And we were so 

And your love 

Is all that I have to live 

Hoping good things a bunch

I would always Love being with you 

Live with you For a million years 

Looking into your eyes 

I will live rest of my life ! 

Celebrate life

Birthdays in childhood wow .. Those were the best birthdays ever . Though it's not my birthday today am writing here because a boy came to my home to give the birthday sweets . I couldn't send him back empty so I gave him a packet of chocolates and a kiss 😍.I am a neat clean super boy look with perfect hairstyle and proper dress . The real feel comes in when all your classmates wear uniform and yourself colour dress . The birthday boy becomes the hero . Singing happy birthday in the assembly feels like giving an award....with all these thoughts waiting for my upcoming birthday 😝

Birthdays are special ...😎

They !

Most people only pay attention to the final product called success .They say that they cannot be like them because Luck has favored them.

But what most don't see is what they have overcome. The struggles,rejection,rumors,criticism,betrayals and the empty bank account !!!

There is only one difference between them and they 

 Who quits and who doesn't ! 

They have showed up everyday

They have learned everyday

They have improved everyday

They have fought like quitting everyday

They have become who they are today ! 

Keep fighting and your success will be spoken one day !