So as I have woke up early today and sent naveen to office with lunch boxes sitting with a coffee here with a positive head just thought of pointing few life lessons that i follow towards my daughter .
1.Allow the kid to talk whatever they want . Give that freedom so that they can be a better person
2.If you give them a task to complete and even if they dont like it somehow make them to complete it so that they will learn to take responsibility of doing it . Try your best that they complete it .
3.Show them unconditional love . That's all that that need .If you dont then they might do things in a secret way and end up in problems when they grow up .
4 .If they say anything listen to them .They might be right . Do not think only you know everything because you are the parent .
5.Do not argue or fight with them .If they dont react properly definitely there is a reason behind it .Try to find and solve it or find an alternative way .
Last but not the least
Be the bestest support system to them so that they be good humans .That's more important than everything else .
You have to go in their way to an extent there is no other option . You cant be a strict parent always in life .
Post in your views or ideas ♡
1.Allow the kid to talk whatever they want . Give that freedom so that they can be a better person
2.If you give them a task to complete and even if they dont like it somehow make them to complete it so that they will learn to take responsibility of doing it . Try your best that they complete it .
3.Show them unconditional love . That's all that that need .If you dont then they might do things in a secret way and end up in problems when they grow up .
4 .If they say anything listen to them .They might be right . Do not think only you know everything because you are the parent .
5.Do not argue or fight with them .If they dont react properly definitely there is a reason behind it .Try to find and solve it or find an alternative way .
6.Do not enforce them in life .They might lose their interests and talent or who they are .Let them free.
Last but not the least
Be the bestest support system to them so that they be good humans .That's more important than everything else .
You have to go in their way to an extent there is no other option . You cant be a strict parent always in life .
Post in your views or ideas ♡
Really pretty good thoughts in nurturing a child. To add few: we need to teach them what's morally right rather what's right or favourable for us. Also let them help on household chores (minimum possible) so that they know the difficulties and grow an attitude of helping others and understand their difficulties and to keep active. Limited expose to smartphones and tabs is must.
ReplyDeleteThank you jeevan
DeleteNice to be an understanding parent allowing the child lot of freedom to express itself but there are times when a stern No is effective and very much needed.Don't you believe in the dictum 'Spare the rod and spoil the child'?
ReplyDeleteYes a little bit.At times
DeleteYes i do,sometimes
DeleteTrue, children should have their share of appreciation,participation and all. Nice tips.
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