Rewrite your life..
Decide who you would have been .Decide who you want to become and work towards becoming that. You can let go and start something new, you can build a life completely different from what anyone who knew you expects from you. It's your right - it is your life and you're the one who has to live it. No one else can.
Breaking the ties may be hard, but if the situation's extreme it may be the best thing you can do. Live your life by what you believe and accept the happiness that comes your way in real !!
It's vital to understand what trustworthy life is ...