19 August 2016

Recognize you .

The family doesn't ,The society doesn't,The neighbors won't ,
The organizations won't .

Nobody will recognize you .
Self recognition is so important
You got to recognize yourself
For others to recognize you .
And , self recognition Is never an easy task .
It takes so much of patience , ignorance towards the bad around you , moving out of the crowd , standing alone , going through criticism , jealousy and what not ?

And one day when you
Go through all these
You are a champion !


15 August 2016

Good & bad

Life can teach you good things and bad things .It's how you perceive those things 
I have had all the negative experiences ,
I took that all as positives .
I wouldn't change anything 
Because ,
It would alter some of the other things that happened to me in my life.
So , when I look back 
I would say I have had good things happen 
But remember , 
You can't have good without bad 
I took it because I loved it 
Success is something that I chased 
I never knew I will be successful 
I have always believed that 
I am a strong woman to accept 
The bad things and make it good 
I am always the best woman to accept the bad 
And I believe that !!!!

14 August 2016

Never quit

This is for everybody who wants something badly in life . We all will definitely have one thing that we need so much . If you ask me , what I need ? I would say a peaceful life ! Finding peace is not that easy . You need so much of patience to find it .

I have to say one thing , let it be whatever you want never think of the cost , struggles , or anything . It will seem like a long way to go . Thinking of all these you might even quit and lose something that is everything you wanted !

Keep fighting and face the reality

You will get it one day and realize this is real happiness ! 

12 August 2016

Expectation kills , change yourself

This is one thing that I want to tell each and every human in the world .

Expectation kills you and the people living with you .

I see so many people in my everyday life . You can't even imagine how many experiences I go through in a day . I hope you also will be going through the same .

I have met people from just born till the old . Few people whom I can't get along are the oldies . The reason is they can't or we can't get along with their lifestyle . They are like broken taps . Either you have to change the tap which is impossible or tie it with a cloth which is a temporary solution . Don't take this offensive . But that's how it is . There are few with modern views and I really appreciate them .Dont think that this girl will also get old one day ! Yes I know that I will get old :)

Two things I believe, always be positive and think good for others . Anything other than this I can't be friends with them .

There is one thing you got to get in your head , the day you start expecting from others you get heart attacks. God has given you two legs and two hands so don't expect others. Especially don't expect from your relatives . If you expect that's your mistake . They are relatives not your mother or father . Let it be anything ,

Learn to live life in desert ! You have to live your life . You can't expect others to make your life beautiful . You have to ! If you expect there is no fool as you .

Try being a day without expecting and see how beautiful your heart stays !

You expecting and blaming them is your fault .

Expectation is the worst disease !  




Varalakshmi pooja and the history !

Dedicating this post for my friends living abroad !

Happy reading ....



 Varalakshmi Vrata is performed by married woman for the well being of all the family members, especially husband, to get progeny etc. It is believed that worshiping Goddess Varalakshmi on this day is equivalent to worshiping Ashtalaksmi – the eight goddesses of Wealth, Earth, Learning, Love, Fame, Peace, Pleasure, and Strength.

In the kingdom of Magadha of yore, there lived a Brahmin woman called Charumathi in a town named Kundina. The prosperous town was the home of Charumathi and her husband. Impressed by her devotion to her family, Goddess Mahalakshmi appeared in her dream and asked her to worship Vara-Lakshmi (Vara = boon, Lakshmi = goddess of wealth) and seek to fulfill her wishes. Varalakshmi is yet another form of Lord Vishnu's consort, Lakshmi, the goddess of wealth. The prayer/worship was prescribed to be offered on the Friday of Sravana month preceding the night of full moon.

When Charumathi explained her dream to her family, she found them encouraging her to perform the pooja. Many other women of the village joined her in performing the pooja in a traditional way and offered many sweet dishes to the Goddess Varalakshmi. They prayed with deep devotion:

On this occasion women worship Goddess Lakshmi with utmost devotion offering sweets and flowers, usually a kalash(representing the deity) will be decorated with a saree, flowers and gold jewelry with offerings placed in front.

This pooja can be done with no restriction to caste or creed. To this day many women observe this traditional festival praying Varamahalakshmi for her blessings in the form of wealth and well being of their family.



8 August 2016

After effects of lights out !!

Ghost movies I love  ! I believe when Good is there evil  is there as well . Watching ghost movies with a popcorn is what I just need . One water bottle also . Sorry :)

I know I get afraid but still I watch .

So I am not going to write the review . I hate writing reviews as well as reading .

I am going to  write the after effects of lights out !!

So I was bored at home , called Naveen to book tickets for me so that I will watch lights out and come back home . He tried in 4-5 theaters and it was full . At last I got one seat in the second row from the screen . Somewhat like sitting inside the screen but that's ok :)

I went to the theatre , got a butter pop corn and water bottle and the movie started ! I had one guy stamp my seat from the back so when the Diana ghost popped in I blasted him . That's it he kept his leg where it has to be . The movie got over in 88 minutes . There was no interval . To be honest it was more worse than watching a short film . Reached home at night .

I was not afraid , forgot the movie completely, because after the movie I shopped few clothes for Naveen because he never gets anything for himself . I have to go and get for him .

Had dinner , went to sleep . I normally switch off the lights and sleep but today had the orange bulb on . The full flat lost current at 1:45 am . Trust me , I saw Diana everywhere around the house . Before sleeping itself I kept the torch with me . I knew all these will happen . Like the bud, in the movie I slept with the torch on !

So that Diana doesn't come !

And now , Naveen asked me :Did your husband come back from the Qatar meeting ! ! Wtf !!!

7 August 2016

It's about !

As I look at life few things that I realized .

It's not about from where you are ?
It's about where you end up
It's not about how you look
It's about being good hearted
It's not about how rich you are
It's about the help you do with what you have
It's not about what job you do
It's about taking care of the family
It's not about whom you marry
It's about how you live !!

Stay good and think good - the rest falls in when time favors you ! 

6 August 2016

Prayers

Prayer is efficacious .

However , you may say that you have been praying but nothing ever happens to you .

I will counter that by saying , " if you did not pray, a lot of other things could have happened."

A simple example , there was an old lady who used to tell her beads all day long . Even though she did this faithfully sitting at home she created problems for everyone at home .

People in the house say , even though she does so much of prayer there is no change in her attitude . The beads have changed and become smooth , while her behavior is still rough as they were before .

I would say imagine her behavior if she dint say the beads ? Imagine what she would have done to the people at home? It would have been impossible to live with her in the same house .

The old lady's prayers did produce results , however small !

So ,

In any situation an intelligent person takes into account the various factors before undertaking an action . The law of karma takes care of the results .

Prayers invoke the gods grace .

Pray at least once a day !

I guess I made someone where get some faith for tomorrow . Stay happy . God bless !

5 August 2016

Miss Messy

Growing hair is a difficult task . I have tried every style possible and now I have long hair . No style as such . Probably I shall do a style change soon . Whenever I do a haircut I take Naveen with me , he is the best . Though he doesn't have sisters he knows so much about all these , might be because of marrying me :) ;)

So traveling to different countries, I have serious problems with hair loss because of the water . I have tried all the possible oils but nothing worked . Atlast I ended up with pure almond oil . I am loving it . Though you don't get it in many shops few small shops have this oil .

So few things to say ,

Your hair needs vitamin e and almonds have it so try and see if interested.

I don't comb my hair everyday . I just have a massager comb and a big teeth one .

I use the massager comb before and after sleep .

To tie my hair , my two hands are enough.

I have never had a proper hair tie , it's always messy

I love messy hairs !!!