26 October 2016

Daughter- in - law 's !

So this is for all the daughter in laws out there who have a lovely mother in law and a more lovely mother in law . I had thoughts of this post for a long time but never got a reason or time . I had to think so much before writing this , because this is a very sensitive relationship.
So here we go , few girls have their parents , few don't have both , few have any one of the parent , few would have but parents would be separated , so there are so many situations and so many issues .
I basically want to make it short and write just a little . Few things that I have learned in my life are below . This is a must to be followed . But , before I start I must say , if you have an understanding husband there is nothing else you would need in this world and I have that one kind of a man with me ! !

Few things that you can follow to avoid problems at home .

1. Never tell to your mother in law what is happening in your house . If it's something good, that's fine . But don't complain about your parents, relatives , cousins anybody . It will come back to you one day . There are chances she tells , you don't go to your house . So , save your people !
2. Never interfere in the finance part . Though you know how much money your husband sends her or it might be even you , never give it with your hand . She might tell you enjoy all the money my son earns and you are the decision maker .So don't get into this mess !
3. If you live abroad, whenever you call her ask about her sisters/ brothers .Because for her only after her sisters and brothers her son , daughter in law, husband etc comes to picture . Don't expect her to enquire about people at your  home :)
4. Whenever you see her , buy something for her , at least few apples .Never go empty handed .
5. Just listen to whatever she says , it's up to you whether you take it to your world or not , but yea listen with a smile !

These are the simplest 5 points that I feel can be maintained . Few might like it , and others would say I am a bad daughter in law but I don't mind . There will definitely be someone who would have felt the same .

The best part is believe your husband, he knows her better than you . At least for a minimum of 25 years he would have been with her . Never ignore his words ( only if your husband is one kind of as I told ) the rest I don't know .

I wish you all have a great mother in law and you all live a happy life .

Too much of anything is not good !!

25 October 2016

Visualize life !

To accomplish something in life you have to think big . You can never think small and accomplish something big . The saying ' leap of faith' yes you have to have that faith and think of having something you want . You keep dreaming of it no you won't get it , to accomplish you have to work for it . You can't go and eat a sandwich and say I want it ! Hopeless !
Keep visualizing and work hard for it , you will definitely get what you want! Everything is possible if you badly need it ! ! 

22 October 2016

Funky monkey and the colored feather !

Few of my sketch art . These days it's funky colorful school days thoughts ! Happens , right ?


Hey funky monkey 
Don't hang around 
Your make up would vanish 
And your hair clip would fall off 
Listen to kili singing la la la 
And dance dub dub ! 




Oh beautiful ! 
Would you give me a feather? 
I promise I will keep it safe 
Between the pages of my book ! 


19 October 2016

Coins

Childhood hobbies ! Everybody would have definitely had a hobby . Whether you still collect them or not is with you !
So mine was collecting coins , stamps , feathers, car models, shells so many . I have been so active from my childhood and I still do all these . I have the habit of writing diaries too :) I used to collect fishes also . When the gushes deliver babies I exchange it and buy the fishes which I like . I still have 70 fishes in my house at Dubai .
Today I decided to open my old school bag and looked into my coin collection . Thought of taking a pic of few coins and posting it here .

I am still stuck in my childhood !

Did you like it ? What all were your hobbies ? Do you still continue ? So many question .

Anyhow bye for now !


17 October 2016

Tail and the tongue !

The reason a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail instead of his tongue 


What is wonderful quote !

So this is what I thought today . How loyal a dog is ?I don't think even humans could be that loyal and lovable  . But obviously I am not comparing a dog and a human . Just posting what I feel .

You see your dog after 10 years still they will come to you with the same love . But do they have a family like us ? Brother , sister , cousins . Lol no ! But we have everything but won't know the value of it ! That's the truth.

I wish humans had the loyalty, love  and friendship that a dog has !

I have no idea why I thought about a dog at 12 am but yea our thoughts are like monkeys !!

What do you think ? I think wagging tail is better than a license less tongue 

2 October 2016

2016 Navarathri

So here we go !

This is the bomma golu I set this year .

Top step is always dedicated to panchamuga hanuman , murugan and ambal.

Second step this yet has the arupadai veedu set

Third step has the nava graham set and few random gods

Fourth step has balambigai and krishna with chattiyar chattichi, kalasam and few other small idols

The last step is always dedicated to the varalakshmi and ashtalakshmi . I keep these  in the bottom step so that it will be easy to do data saraswathi pooja .

On the floor I have kept kacheri set , stage show. It's an induction stove box I converted to a stage by sticking red velvet paper :)

On the side, I kept two steps

Top has the ardhanari with karthigai pengal.

Bottom step has some random dolls . I named them the twin step !!

I kept a small park , farm and some fishes in a bowl so that I kids can enjoy watching it .

Hope you all liked it . Let me know what you liked the most ?









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