30 December 2011

Sorry Rewind 2011 Please

Fast and Furious Cyclone Hit chennai

I daily have the habit of reading news once i reach office-The headlines mentioned-Cyclone in chennai-i immediatetly had live weather open in my system.I started work but then it was in a state that we had to leave the workplace before 3 pm as after 3 cabs wont be provided.Few had to stay back but then i somehow managed to escape.Myself and my friend rushed to get the cab but then we could not get one as there was no cab to our area .
Here we go myself and my friend walked all way long to the bus stop -she told me that we can travel in electric train but then i am so afraid of trains hence i told her that we will go in bus .we were full wet and got into the bus -we never got a seat as well..we got down from the bus but there to pay for taxi we did not have money-we had to go in search of atm for a long time and last managed to take some money -somehow we reached home-
As soon as i reached home i had my room mates -we directly left to terrace and played good music and started to dance in the rain-i got cold and cough but still danced in the rain for 3 hours until it became dark.
By that time -was hell hungry but then we could not go out as it was heavily raining with wind and thunders we had floods and trees fallen down but still myself and few of my friends folded the jeans and walked to a coffee shop.That was a wonderfull moment to have a hot cup of coffee with few gossips...
we returned back by that time parents started calling from home stating to somehow travel 8 hours and come home as they were worried..I really wanted to go home but then could not .I did not have enough guts to travel alone or i could not call any of friends to drop me as their state was much pathetic than mine.I decided that i will start home on 30th Morning but then it was on this day that the cyclone crossed chennai -the whole city was dark-parents called again and told not to leave home as they were worried whether i will get stuck somewhere in middle -
Hence we all friends locked all the doors and windows -got settled @ home and started praying that the cyclone should end and we should get back home for the wonderfull 2012 !!!

With Hope's
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23 December 2011

Thanks 2011

Hai All,

I am so happy that i have few wonderfull people around me who read my blog..
Thanks for all...
Have a great Year Ahead..
Keep reading -and Welcome 2012 the year of happiness...

18 December 2011

We call them SISTERS but they have done more than MOTHERS !

-AMRI Fire accident -

Nurses never get well paid in  India. This is a profession that is looked down always .Other than the poor families in Kerala and some other parts of the country, nobody will send their educated daughters into this profession.They think that if the family is not financially good they can send their daughter/son for nursing so that they can bring up their family somehow.They never realize the value and great service which a nurse does.They get paid less for the great work which they do. The IT professionals  get paid good salaries compared to others profession's in India. The nurses get shouted at by the doctors and the patients' relatives but still they stay patient enough and save us . Yet  two of them are being recognized by this incident for their selfless service who belong to the gods own country.
I wish hereafter Nurse's should not be looked down .Please realize that they are more than mothers for this world....
These two people are a symbol of highest values of young India .
None can pay off for their Commitment and Self Sacrifice !!!

23 November 2011


 "Water carefully contained on hand symbolizes Love.”

 As long as you keep your hand gently open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds. This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love. They try to posses, own, demand, and expect… and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you. For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love, allow them to be free beings and you will be sucessfull...

3 November 2011

I Cup

 iCup is an innovative concept specially designed for Apple. It’s key point that you can heat up any drink inside the cup by connecting it with the user’s notebook, as well as any device that supports USB connection, via a USB cable(in Park,at office,at library etc.) The key goal of the project is to ease life with more manageable features that ensure uninterrupted working opportunity, doesn’t matter the user goes to the park, library or working in the office. The featured Apple logo of the cup is actually a heat indicator that shows the temperature of the inside content, blue for cool, orange for warm and pink for hot, while enhancing the aesthetics. Moreover, it incorporates a displaceable handle that offers convenient fit into any small area and the changeable upper portion allows easy washing.
Every part of the iCup from Onur Karaalioglu is enhanced with advanced technologies and innovative ideas. The Apple cup has got everything like a heatproof body which anyone can touch and hold while being connected to the netbook, a heat filter, allochrous logo for easy handling, a heat coil and a durable base.

A person, sitting in a library, in their office, in a park or while working at home on their netbook will not have to long for a hot cup of tea or coffee or will no longer have to keep ordering for a fresh cup every time when finding it getting cold. For heating up your drink this special cup named as the iCup would hopefully not just be a concept and will soon be available at the Apple store. The specialty of this cup is that it is easy to use, easy to connect and most importantly, easy to wash. For washing the iCup, one will just have to bring out the inner part of the cup as it is of removable kind. So, once the washing process is done and it gets dry, you can easily place it again in the heatproof body. For further ease of use, this Apple iCup has been designed with a removable handle too.

18 October 2011

I am paid to be sweet!

I am a person who talks a lot or you can call me as a chatterbox.When i was in school everyday my mum and dad comes and stands in front of my school principal..something or else ..i was very mischevious.Even now when i go home they say -can you please shut your mouth for sometime...whom ever i see will be become my friend ..from a dustbin collector to anyone let it be.I worked for an organization for 2.5 years .I had a very nice team of 22 .All of my same age group.I was into customer service..All the customers were my friend they call and ask for my help.I even have few who has sent me gifts.Life was so beautifull.I go to office at early morning 1 AM like a ghost and return back in the sun..when i return home i find people rushing to office..At that time i think will i get a day where i get ready in the morning and go to office -at least one day in my life time.Its very tough to get day shift in a customer service field.Eventough i  was piad less and worked without sleep i was happy that i got many people around me and i managed to gather many good friends..There were days where i sleep in the chair in my office and have breakfast at 4AM in the morning standing with a plate in a local shop which is next to my office/I participated in all team outings/We had Dj nights for new year in my office/Singing competitions and goes on like that .I have got outstanding scores for 6 times and i was promoted as a complaints manager .All the calls we receive will be the most pathetic one for the day where the customers will be so irate and i have to be very Patient ....
I learned how to be patient after going into customer service field ..My parents were so happy to see me like that as when i was a small girl i was  short tempered .If i throw an orange on the wall you can collect a good amount of orange Juice!!!
I love speaking English and i love speaking to english people as well..
I loved my job !!
I did not have any issues with my company other than the salary..
I decided to move out of the company .I was the 2nd to join the new team.Then it became 5 in a team..while comparing the previous company count it was less here and even the work floor space was lessI thought that i had a good team of 22 so for sure i can make these 5 as my best friends,which never happened  ....Eventhough i did the same sort of job which i did in my previous company the work place was tough for me ..I could not sync up with people ...I was discouraged and put behind..which makes me totally sick ...I never felt to come to my floor .I dont join any team functions or celebrations .i dont party ..Nothing -i come to work take calls and leave for the day ..People were so partial each other ..i was not recognized in any way .Then day by day i even stopped talking to people.I tried myself to be good and make them my friend but then that never happened ,i dont know why?I dont understand how they rate a person in my workplace ..
When i left my previous company my Team leader told that you will learn many things when you go out of this place .I realize the meaning of that statement now.
I myself know that i am worthy enough- but the people with me dont understand that !!its a lose for them not for me...
I’ve been a success since Day 1, because even when i was Zero i had people around me
 I will always provide good customer service
I came to a conclusion that -I am paid for being as sweet as honey to the customers not to others hence i just do my work !!!!!
Always work for your  heart not for money !!!

6 October 2011


I have a habit that i sit in front of television before i brush teeth every morning .i happened to see that "Steve Jobs, Co-founder of Apple Inc" was dead .To be honest i know that he is the co-founder of Apple.Inc but then i dont know anything about him.I came to office and OPENED MY INBOX-Here we go .The below is what i read ..It really touched my heart and i got inspired !
Steve Jobs, Co-founder of Apple Inc, who died on the 5th of October 2011, lets read a story which really INSPIRES…….


About Steve Jobs

Steven Paul Jobs (February 24, 1955 – October 5, 2011)  was an American computer entrepreneur and inventor. He was co-founder,  chairman, and chief executive officer of Apple Inc. Jobs also previously served as chief executive of Pixar Animation Studios; he became a member of the board of directors of The Walt Disney Company in 2006, following the acquisition of Pixar by Disney. He was credited in Toy Story (1995) as an executive producer.

Stanford Report, June 14, 2005
'You've got to find what you love,' Jobs says
This is the text of the Commencement address by Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer and of Pixar Animation Studios, delivered on June 12, 2005.

I am honored to be with you today at your commencement from one of the finest universities in the world. I never graduated from college. Truth be told, this is the closest I've ever gotten to a college graduation. Today I want to tell you three stories from my life. That's it. No big deal. Just three stories.
The first story is about connecting the dots.
I dropped out of Reed College after the first 6 months, but then stayed around as a drop-in for another 18 months or so before I really quit. So why did I drop out?
It started before I was born. My biological mother was a young, unwed college graduate student, and she decided to put me up for adoption. She felt very strongly that I should be adopted by college graduates, so everything was all set for me to be adopted at birth by a lawyer and his wife.
 Except that when I popped out they decided at the last minute that they really wanted a girl. So my parents, who were on a waiting list, got a call in the middle of the night asking: "We have an unexpected baby boy; do you want him?" They said: "Of course." My biological mother later found out that my mother had never graduated from college and that my father had never graduated from high school. She refused to sign the final adoption papers.
She only relented a few months later when my parents promised that I would someday go to college.
And 17 years later I did go to college.
 But I naively chose a college that was almost as expensive as Stanford, and all of my working-class parents' savings were being spent on my college tuition. After six months, I couldn't see the value in it. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life and no idea how college was going to help me figure it out. And here I was spending all of the money my parents had saved their entire life. So I decided to drop out and trust that it would all work out OK. It was pretty scary at the time, but looking back it was one of the best decisions I ever made. The minute I dropped out I could stop taking the required classes that didn't interest me, and begin dropping in on the ones that looked interesting.
It wasn't all romantic.
 I didn't have a dorm room, so I slept on the floor in friends' rooms, I returned coke bottles for the 5¢ deposits to buy food with, and I would walk the 7 miles across town every Sunday night to get one good meal a week at the Hare Krishna temple. I loved it. And much of what I stumbled into by following my curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on. Let me give you one example:
Reed College at that time offered perhaps the best calligraphy instruction in the country. Throughout the campus every poster, every label on every drawer, was beautifully hand calligraphed. Because I had dropped out and didn't have to take the normal classes, I decided to take a calligraphy class to learn how to do this.
I learned about serif and san serif typefaces, about varying the amount of space between different letter combinations, about what makes great typography great. It was beautiful, historical, artistically subtle in a way that science can't capture, and I found it fascinating.
None of this had even a hope of any practical application in my life. But ten years later, when we were designing the first Macintosh computer, it all came back to me. And we designed it all into the Mac.
 It was the first computer with beautiful typography. If I had never dropped in on that single course in college, the Mac would have never had multiple typefaces or proportionally spaced fonts. And since Windows just copied the Mac, its likely that no personal computer would have them. If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later.
Again, you can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.
My second story is about love and loss.
I was lucky — I found what I loved to do early in life. Woz and I started Apple in my parents garage when I was 20. We worked hard, and in 10 years Apple had grown from just the two of us in a garage into a $2 billion company with over 4000 employees. We had just released our finest creation — the Macintosh — a year earlier, and I had just turned 30. And then I got fired. How can you get fired from a company you started? Well, as Apple grew we hired someone who I thought was very talented to run the company with me, and for the first year or so things went well. But then our visions of the future began to diverge and eventually we had a falling out.
When we did, our Board of Directors sided with him. So at 30 I was out. And very publicly out. What had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone, and it was devastating.
I really didn't know what to do for a few months. I felt that I had let the previous generation of entrepreneurs down - that I had dropped the baton as it was being passed to me. I met with David Packard and Bob Noyce and tried to apologize for screwing up so badly. I was a very public failure, and I even thought about running away from the valley.

But something slowly began to dawn on me — I still loved what I did. The turn of events at Apple had not changed that one bit. I had been rejected, but I was still in love. And so I decided to start over.
I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life.
During the next five years, I started a company named NeXT, another company named Pixar, and fell in love with an amazing woman who would become my wife. Pixar went on to create the worlds first computer animated feature film, Toy Story, and is now the most successful animation studio in the world. In a remarkable turn of events, Apple bought NeXT, I returned to Apple, and the technology we developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apple's current renaissance. And Laurene and I have a wonderful family together.
I'm pretty sure none of this would have happened if I hadn't been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it. Sometimes life hits you in the head with a brick. Don't lose faith. I'm convinced that the only thing that kept me going was that I loved what I did. You've got to find what you love. And that is as true for your work as it is for your lovers. Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work.
 And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don't settle.
My third story is about death.
When I was 17, I read a quote that went something like: "If you live each day as if it was your last, someday you'll most certainly be right." It made an impression on me, and since then, for the past 33 years, I have looked in the mirror every morning and asked myself: "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?" And whenever the answer has been "No" for too many days in a row, I know I need to change something.
Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart.

About a year ago I was diagnosed with cancer. I had a scan at 7:30 in the morning, and it clearly showed a tumor on my pancreas. I didn't even know what a pancreas was. The doctors told me this was almost certainly a type of cancer that is incurable, and that I should expect to live no longer than three to six months. My doctor advised me to go home and get my affairs in order, which is doctor's code for prepare to die. It means to try to tell your kids everything you thought you'd have the next 10 years to tell them in just a few months. It means to make sure everything is buttoned up so that it will be as easy as possible for your family. It means to say your goodbyes.
I lived with that diagnosis all day. Later that evening I had a biopsy,
 where they stuck an endoscope down my throat, through my stomach and into my intestines, put a needle into my pancreas and got a few cells from the tumor. I was sedated, but my wife, who was there, told me that when they viewed the cells under a microscope the doctors started crying because it turned out to be a very rare form of pancreatic cancer that is curable with surgery. I had the surgery and I'm fine now.
This was the closest I've been to facing death,
 and I hope its the closest I get for a few more decades. Having lived through it, I can now say this to you with a bit more certainty than when death was a useful but purely intellectual concept:
No one wants to die. Even people who want to go to heaven don't want to die to get there. And yet death is the destination we all share. No one has ever escaped it. And that is as it should be, because Death is very likely the single best invention of Life. It is Life's change agent. It clears out the old to make way for the new. Right now the new is you, but someday not too long from now, you will gradually become the old and be cleared away. Sorry to be so dramatic, but it is quite true.
Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.
When I was young, there was an amazing publication called The Whole Earth Catalog, which was one of the bibles of my generation. It was created by a fellow named Stewart Brand not far from here in Menlo Park, and he brought it to life with his poetic touch. This was in the late 1960's, before personal computers and desktop publishing, so it was all made with typewriters, scissors, and polaroid cameras. It was sort of like Google in paperback form, 35 years before Google came along: it was idealistic, and overflowing with neat tools and great notions.
Stewart and his team put out several issues of The Whole Earth Catalog, and then when it had run its course, they put out a final issue. It was the mid-1970s, and I was your age. On the back cover of their final issue was a photograph of an early morning country road, the kind you might find yourself hitchhiking on if you were so adventurous.
Beneath it were the words: "Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish." It was their farewell message as they signed off. Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish. And I have always wished that for myself. And now, as you graduate to begin anew, I wish that for you.
Stay Hungry. Stay Foolish.
Thank you all very much.

5 October 2011

Fractured tears -healing

I guess that you all would have read "Fractured tears".Ben returned back today ..I was busy doing my work.I sit in the entrance of my floor .You can even say that i am the "Face of my floor"but still i did not notice him..All of a sudden when i got up i saw ben standing with a black Shirt and blue faded Jeans and a band-aid which was pink and white in colour  ..I felt to shout BEN!but my floor people will say shooooooo!!!hence i could not show my feelings out .I controlled and waited for him to come and tell a Hai ...He went to everyone and gave explanations for all the questions which they asked ..But i noticed that many did not even have a heart to tell him a hai or to ask how are you ?Heartless people..
Here comes He went to that girl and was speaking for a long time .Again my head went on asking why he went to her first?what to do ?my bludy brain works like that !!
I told him to wait so that i can take a break and spend some time with him ..People are all laughing at him and asking hell out questions they dont understand that he cant talk much as the teeth is clipped .not even one is good enough to say take care ...
Anyhow at the end i managed to take a 30 minutes break with a tea..we went to open air theatre and spent some good time .He showed the fotographs which were taken when he was in hospital,Then came the question ..What am i for you ?Actually i did not have an answer .As i mentioned i already have a boyfriend but then i care so much for ben that i cant say how much i like him??Some feelings cant be expressed .....
He is leaving home tommorow
Hope he will be back to form sooon..
Atleast if he was in chennai i could have met him but he is travelling long way i have to wait until he comes back .
Still will make sure that he is Happy !!!!! have promised ben that once he is back we will go to church
He laughed ..heeeeeee..yu comming to church ??
I normally tell that i will come out but then all weekends i stay back home washing clothes and cleaning my room

But this time without fail.......


30 September 2011

Ying Yang

What is the Yin Yang Theory?

Yin yang theory is a kind of logic, which views things in relation to its whole. The theory is based on two basic components: yin and yang, which are neither materials nor energy. They combine in a complementary manner and form a method for explaining relationships between objects. Gradually, this logic was developed into a system of thought that was applied to other areas. Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) is an example of one area where the yin yang theory is used to understand complicated relationships in the body

The Origin of the Yin Yang Theory

The original concept of yin and yang came from the observation of nature and the environment. "Yin" originally referred to the shady side of a slope while "yang" referred to the sunny side. Later, this thinking was used in understanding other occurrences, which occurred in pairs and had complementary and opposing characteristics in nature. Some examples include: sky and earth, day and night, water and fire, active and passive, male and female and so on. Working with these ideas, ancient people recognized nearly all things could have yin and yang properties. Yin and yang can describe two relative aspects of the same phenomena such as the example of the slope, or they can describe two different objects like sky and earth.
Usually, yang is associated with energetic qualities. For example, movement, outward and upward direction, heat, brightness, stimulation, activity and excitement are all yang qualities. Yin, on the other hand, is associated with the physical form of an object and has less energetic qualities such as rest, inward and downward direction, cold, darkness, condensation, inhibition, and nourishment. See Table 1 for a description of yin and yang characteristics.

27 September 2011

Fractured Tears!!

Whatever i write here is from all my heart ..I am a person who lost most of the things in life ..There has been days when i was left all alone,but still i managed to dream high and fly with beautifull wings "I am the best" ..I always had a heart to bear any pains ..i never cry ..you can even say that i done have a tear gland ..I love to be like a boy ...!!
When i was in college I fell in love with the best man in this world ..!!He was the best ever you can see...For all girls their man is the best and i am one among them ..
He is not next to me ..i have to travel hours and hours to meet  the busy man ...but still everything goes fine as we understand each other well ....
I am a person who doesnt like chennai as the weather is pathetic...but then for my job sake i had to come ...I did not have any friends in chennai ..life was so boring ...I joined an organization ..even there i could not get together with people ..i did not like ...
One day when i entered i saw a Guy with a white shirt and ble jeans ...with a file in his hand "he was a fresher to my company".I never liked him ...He always keeps starring and he never speaks to anyone ...I thought even tough he seems to be rude he might be good by heart ...i was praying that he should come to my team so that i can make him my friend ..but then he was for another team  where i was before ..bad luck!!
Days went on ..I started talking to him ...we both became good friends -But then we dont know the mobile numbers!!!Hi -bye friends...
Later on one day i noticed him to be so update ..He comes like a "Dirty Pig" to office ..You would have never found such a face in this world .. i wonder wether he brushes his teeth and comes to office ..
He was not so close to me ...i just asked him y upset?he said"nothing"
I managed to take him out and know the story behind his dirty face-It was a 2 year old love failure !!
I know how it hurts when someone whom you loved the most walks away !!
The girl whom he loved was not worthy enough for him...hence i managed to make him understand that** his life would be much better without her**...
Days went on like that ...We both became very good friends..
Here comes the turning point >>>>-A new girl enetered into the scene which made me jealous .Whenever he speaks to her i stare at him .. I got a feeling that he loves her or likes her more than me ..As he was the first best friend in chennai i did not like if he speaks to any other person .Even the girl had the same feeling .if he talks to me she doesnt like
We both girls never speak each other as it will end up in a fight
I started asking him "Who is the best >myself or she">He tells me you have been in my tough times so i like you the most ..but still he goes out with her on all weekends so i got a doubt that all his love started leaning towards her
He was good enough to manage with both of us !!
Here comes my Fractured tears ....
He had a high fever and did not turn up for work...but then we had a plan to meet at night after work ...He came with his Hunk to our office where he picked me .i told him several times to wear the helmet and not to raise up speed more than 40 .I mentioned him as i have met with a very bad accident in my life which ended in 8 months of rest ...Until he dropped me he never wore the helmet but went in a moderate speed .I already told him to call me once or send me a text so that i can sleep peacefully with a feeling that he is safe at home ...
I never got a call for a long time ..I called to his mobile -he picked and said"I met with an accident"cant talk to you and hung up.I tried again and agian where he did not respond .I managed to call one of his team mate and inform this where that guy never bothered about it ..At the end his room mates hospitalized him and called me up and informed ..That night was a nightmare for me..I never slep ..I did not have a heart to go to the hospital as we..He got his Jaw and hand broken ...he could not even speak ...For two days i was enquiring with his friends for his health ...
On the third day i received a message"I hate you because you did not come and see me"
My heart went upside down - i did not know what to do .i really wanted to go and see him but then i could not ..I remembered the day he took care of me when i had a viral fever  .To have some gratitude i should have visited the hospital but i did not ...
That was the first time i got into his bike and he ended up in an accident !!
I never called him or messaged as i did not want to get him into strain  ..after four -five days i met him
The day i met him will be the ever unforgettable day in my life.. I just went in front of him and noticed that  he had his teeth clipped and hand fractured -he could not even wear his shirt ..But still he managed to Smile at me in the same way ..i could not speak to him.my heart was filled with water..I folded my hands with head down and started crying-The first statement he told after wiping my tears was "dont cry -I will be back soon" I like you so much ..i was still crying with a broken and cracked heart ..he is not my boyfriend or there is no such relationship ..but still he was the one who stays with me in my bad times...i just told him "Take care "and left eventhough i felt to hug him and cry.Whole night i did not sleep ...I missed him so badly ...i felt like my world has gone dark ...
Next day i called and asked "I did not come to the hospital -do you hate me"??
The answer was "I know about you -your always my small devil"!!!I miss you a lot and will be back soon ...
No one knows all these as we kept it personal as our working atmosphere was like that !!
From my heart i say"I have never seen such a understanding friend till today in my life and no one will earn a friend like him as well....He is the ever best trustworthy Friend for lifetime
" Be back soon >Besant Church-for sure !!!!Have to thank the lord for saving you !!!!

26 September 2011


1. My darling, my lover, my beautiful wife:
Marrying you has completely screwed up my life.

2. I see your face when I am dreaming.
   That's why I always wake up screaming.

3. Kind, intelligent, loving and hot;
   This describes everything you are not.

5. I thought that I could love no other
    -- that is until I met your brother.

6. Roses are red, violets are blue, sugar is    sweet, and so are you.
But the roses are wilting, the violets are dead, the sugar bowl's empty and so is your head.

7. I want to feel your sweet embrace;
  But don't take that paper bag off your face !

8. I love your smile, your face, and your eyes
    Damn, I'm good at telling lies!

9. My love, you take my breath away.
    What have you stepped in to smell this way?

10. My feelings for you no words can tell,
      Except for maybe 'Go to hell.'

11. What inspired this amorous rhyme?
     Two parts vodka, one part lime.

23 September 2011

Cutting dog's tail can land you in jail !!!

Just let your dog's tail be. Cutting it could land you behind bars, as the mutilation of pets for cosmetic
reasons has been made an offence.

An advisory sent out by the Animal Welfare Board of India (AWBI) to veterinary councils , colleges,
kennel clubs and other institutions likely to carry out such procedures states that practices like docking
of tails and cropping of ears will now be punishable with a fine, or imprisonment, or both.

The AWBI acted on a Federation of Indian Animal Protection Organizations petition.
Traditionally, Doberman, Boxer, Great Dane and Cocker Spaniel pups have been subjected to tail
docking, but veterinarians say there is no reason for this practice to continue.

"Earlier, it was believed the tail would be a hindrance when the dogs went hunting, but now docking is
done for purely cosmetic purposes. Many owners do not even know why they do this," said Dr Kunal
Dev Sharma, veterinarian surgeon at Max Vets Dog and Cat Hospital.

"It all started with Kennel Club of India publishing an article in its magazine, Indian Kennel Gazette,
that promoted tail-docking and ear cropping practices. Kennel Club of India said it would respond
to the charge after a couple of days. The AWBI advisory states: "The practice of non-therapeutic tail
docking and ear cropping is seen in the light of mutilation, which amounts to cruelty to animals as per
Prevention of Cruelty to Animals Act 1960, and therefore, a punishable offence." Section 11 of the Act
makes violations punishable with a fine of up to Rs 100.

"The violator can also be charged under section 428 of IPC that talks about maiming of animals," This
section allows for a jail term of up to two years.

16 May 2011


The fear of losing someone you love is normal for most people.  This comes  from your fear of being alone in this world and your fear of not being able to bear the thought of being the one who was left behind.

It feels like a dagger through the heart that’s dreadfully sharp and it causes that horrible pain.  And all these is only “thinking” of the possibility of losing someone you truly love. But what if it actually happens?

There can never be a worst experience than actually feeling the loss. The pain is so real and is just too unbearable.

Thinking about the possibility of losing someone you love is so hurting.  You may have invested too much of your time and feelings for that person and so just the thought of losing that person would leave you in a state of panic.

The fear of losing any one  can be difficult for a person, especially if he or she has just experienced a death of a loved one.  

A person can fear losing his/her spouse, his/her parents, his/her children, his/her relatives, his/her friends, or any person who is close to his heart.
The fear of losing a loved one is always in existence.  One can never get away from this fear because there are situations that will make a person think of the possibility of being separated from the people they love.  But the possibility of losing someone is one of life's facts and no one can prevent this from happening. 

However, one can always come out of being left behind .....but till now i dont know how to come out of it ....!!!!

9 May 2011

29 April 2011


In the heart of a seed,
Buried deep so deep ,
A dear little plant
lay fast asleep..
Wake!said the sunshine and
Creep to the land .
Wake!said the voice
Of a little raindrop..
The little plant heard,
And it arose to see.
What a wonderful -
World might it be!!!!!


  When  things in your life seem almost too much to handle, When 24  hours in a day is not enough;
remember the mayonnaise jar and 2 cups of  coffee.

A professor stood before his philosophy  class and  had some items in front of him.
When the class began, wordlessly, he  picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar
and start to fill it with  golf balls.

He then asked the students if the jar was full.  They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and  poured it into the jar. He shook the jar lightly.
The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golf balls. He then asked the students again
if the jar was full. They agreed it was.

The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded With an unanimous  'yes.'

The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the  table and poured the entire contents into the jar, effectively
filling the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.

'Now,' said the  professor, as the laughter subsided, 'I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life.
The golf balls are the important things - God,  family, children, health, friends, and favourite passions 
Things  that if everything else was lost and  only they remained, your life would still be full.

The pebbles are the things that matter like your job, house, and car.
The sand is everything else -- The small stuff.
'If you put the sand into the jar  first,' he continued, 'there is no room for the pebbles or the golf  balls.
The same goes for life.

If you spend all your time and energy  on the small stuff, You will never have room for the things that  are
important to you.

Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups.
Take your partner out to dinner.

There will always be time to clean the house and fix the dripping tap.
'Take care of the golf balls first --The things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.'
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.
The  professor smiled. 'I'm glad you asked'.
It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seem, there's always room for a couple of cups of coffee with a friend.'
Please share this with other "Golf Balls"   I  just did......


5 foods every woman must eat

Leafy vegetables

It is not possible to meet your nutritional needs without having leafy vegetables in your diet. Spinach, legumes, asparagus, lettuce,   fenugreek leaves, broccoli are available in abundance and are huge sources of fibre, Vitamin C and K, folic acid. It is also a vision protector and provides four essential minerals, i.e. calcium, magnesium, iron and potassium. Try to have it daily in your diet and darker the better.

Whole grains

Whole grains have up to 96 per cent more fibre and essential nutrients and vitamins than refined grains.  You can start your day with whole wheat cereal or a whole wheat bread toast."


Make nuts an essential ingredient in your diet. Sprinkle it on salads or breakfast cereals or stir them into yoghurt because they are an excellent source of protein, magnesium and B & E vitamins. They are useful in fighting heart disease and cancer. Nuts are high in fat calories, but their fat is the heart-healthy kind. You can also eat them as an evening snack. But make sure you don't overdo them. About a quarter cup or about 15-20 almonds, cashews, walnuts are good enough a week.


Low fat or plain yoghurt is a great source of vitamins, protein and calcium. It also has healthy bacteria which can fight diseases. "Three to four cups a week is good enough for your diet. But make sure you don't add sugar to it. Instead choose plain yoghurt and add fruits or berries to it,"


Ever wondered why most of the diet fibre products have berries in them? Reason being berries are high in fill-you-up fibre and also helps curb weight. Berries have more protective plant antioxidants than almost any other food. These antioxidants not only lower your disease risks, but also help prevent memory loss. You can have a bowl full of them thrice a week. It could be fresh or frozen, benefits stay!

21 April 2011

My First Post ...

"Decisions are a way of defining ourselves,
They are the way to give life and meaning to words,to dreams.
They are the way to let what we are,
Be what we want to be "

The kid .

Not finding much of time with so much to do at home . Meanwhile , I took a summer painting class at Chennai for a month. Thought of teachin...