26 September 2018

Wedding


How happy am I?
A simple wedding ,
With few members ,
With no make up ,
My own dress choices ,
No music or decorations ,
No photographs ,
No gold jewellery .
No fancy or show offs

How beautiful it was
When I think of it these days
I still wonder
How I found a man
Who wanted me and just me .
Nothing else ...

And for me my marriage is more beautiful than my wedding 

And that's how i live my life♡ with an amazing man . 


18 September 2018

My dear 20's

Few things that I tell to my 20 year old self .
To start with  I don't have any regrets but that bad feelings I have .I do believe that I have done the best a girl can do in her 20's .

Firstly , I was a heartbroken 20 year old living in a mansion with few clothes and no money. I had to work 7 days a week in graveyard shift .I never have my breakfast so that I can sleep.Most of my friends were boys because they don't gossip and they are easy going .

Here are few things I want to tell my 20 year old self

0.Dont marry in 20's :

Never think about marriage in your 20's.Marrying a man younger to you is never wrong .There are no such rules in my world.

1.Finding a soul friend is important :
I should have not had many friends . Should have realised who is worthy . There was a guy with whom I was a friend for 7 years and one day the friendship broke .The reasons are stories.

2. Breakups are fine .
Every time you have a breakup or a crush failure remember you will find someone great in your life .

3 .Save money :
Should have saved money .

4.Control anger :
I should have controlled my anger so that I had many people with me today . Words thrown can never be taken back . If they forgive me I would be the happiest.

5.Know your teammates :
Should have realised my team mate is ditching me so that I would have  been in the UK today but that's still fine . I am happy where I am .

6.Eat healthy :
I should have not skipped breakfast for 7 years and lived with noodles and fruits . I ended up having health issues .

7.Lend money to the right one :
 I should have not lend money to whomever asks because I still dint get it back .They cheated me .I could have done something else with that .

8.Knowledge is everything :
Should have continued my studies but that's ok I took care of my family .If I ever get a chance to go to  college I will run .

9.Spend time with books:
Should have read some books instead of spending time outside without sleeping .

10.Choose clothes wisely:
Should have tried different clothes . I remember having two jeans and few t shirts

11.Get advise from right ones :
Not everybody are eligible to advice .Just because they advise you when you are mentally ill doesnt mean they are experienced .

12. No credit cards:
Do not have a credit card with  you if you don't have your own limits .

13.Observe people :
Talk less and listen more. Atleast observe .

14.Expectation kills :
 Expectation and validation kills . Think that there is no such person alive to appreciate and encourage .




16 September 2018

2:31 am


And today I feel so left alone ,
Nobody understands what I say
Nobody realises how different I feel
Nobody knows nothing.
The only thing I learned is
When you are helpless
Cry for sometime
And you should be alright .
And
Not everybody can cry
They just keep it inside like me and don't know how to explain
When too much of stress hits your head and you are left alone
The only thing you need is a cup of coffee to drink in peace and sometime for yourself
And at this time everybody are helpless
So what I learnt is you have only you .
Nobody else .
This situation happens to all .
You have everyone around but actually nobody. 
This shall pass too ♡

7 August 2018

Our Chennai wall

So here are few of the art works that I did while tungli is sleeping .I do wish to sleep but I don't get it that soon so I keep doing these.People who fall asleep in seconds are blessed .

So this is a yellow dreamcatcher . Thought of doing a white one but if it gets dirty i will feel sad so did a yellow one.I have currently hanged it in our hall .Tungli loves this .If she cries I show this .jing jing jing :)



This one is the golden peace tree . I have a tree painting in my dubai house .I think you all should have seen it in my previous blog . I strongly believe in seeing a tree once I wake up, a happy feeling  .I got this black chart for making a wall hanging but ended up with this tree . This is the golden glittery peace tree . It's in our bedroom ♡


This one took a lot of time. An embroidery with few flowers . Just a part of it is here.  It's a big deal to keep the needles safe having tungli at home .


So this one was made with chocobar ice cream sticks . The colours have a story which is 28.4.17 .Count the coloured sticks ☆. So on top of tungli S date of birth I have written with glitter pens . As there is no space in the main door I put it on the bedroom door .


I think you all liked these . Post in your comments.

Which one did you like the most ?


Here comes our daughter's first painting . I have framed it ♡♡♡♡.

1 August 2018

Chennai

For the first time ever
I miss this place
Because she loves
To be here .

Going out everyday
Playing with the kids
Drinking orange juice in the evening
She loves
     The auto ride
 The rose on her pony tail
     The busy markets
The bangle shops too
To stand in the balcony
Looking at the cattle passing by

She loves everything here
She loves a rainy evening 
She will miss you Chennai. 
See you soon.

22 July 2018

Food

Hello Everybody ♡ 

Its been a while since I wrote here . Getting busy these days with tungli and my sister's wedding preparations.  

I had this thought of starting a cooking channel for a long time if you guys remember. I am still thinking about it because if I start then there shouldn't be anything in between that stops what I do.  It's absolute waste if I start a channel and don't get time to upload.  

What do you guys think about it ? Anybody interested to watch ? Share your thoughts.

30 May 2018

The kid .

Not finding much of time with so much to do at home . Meanwhile , I took a summer painting class at Chennai for a month. Thought of teaching what I know to the kids . I realized that teaching is not an easy job . I had to be very patient enough with the kids . They were all below 7 years of age . They have No idea about the colours or how to use the brush . This is all fine .


There are so many things that I observed in the parents.I normally love observing than talking .


Particularly I am mentioning few behaviours here which are not that great towards a kid .


1. Never slap you kid .Slapping them won't help in any way .


Instance - his mother lied to me and he told me it' a lie so she slapped him in front of me .


2.Never keep scolding your child at your home .


Instance - when painting he started crying .When asked he said his mum keeps beating him at home .


3.Trust you kid .I am.not saying kids wont lie but at first you need to listen to them and then secondly comes the lie or whatever .


4.Never make a scene in front of your kid like crying , telling to make a promise on mother etc .Typical Indian mothers at times .


5.Never talk bad about the father at any cost .You never know what he goes through at his work place and how he sends the money to you . Learn to run a family happily with the money he gives . He has a better sense than you .


6.Give some respect to the father in front of the kid .What you tell about his dad is what he learns and continues.


7.When you leave the kid in a class , please leave him and go . Do not talk or put your nose into  other families personal affairs . Behave•


8.Never degrade an other kid . Every kid and every painting is great .



The kids are spoiled only because of the mothers attitude . At least the ones who came for my classes.


End result was .


We wish we had a mom like you who never scolds or slaps us at home . This might seem funny but actually not .


Please try to sit and talk with them .You have to sacrifice everything to bring up a good human being.  Not easy !!


Few never know the value of a child . They would have got it easily . For people like me who got one after 5 years and left 8 years of working experience all these shows how pathetic few parents are .


Post in your views .

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